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Conversation with Christina Congleton
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Conversation with Christina Congleton

Getting Over Ourselves: Embracing Humility, Vulnerability and Openness

In this engaging conversation, Christina Congleton, author of "Getting Over Ourselves," discusses her journey of exploring the cultural context that shaped the millennial generation. Drawing from her background in neuroscience, she unpacks concepts like everyday narcissism, loneliness, burnout, and the importance of recognizing our interdependence.

Key Takeaways:

  • The shift towards neoliberalism and individualism in the 1980s shaped the "water" millennials swam in, contributing to stereotypical millennial traits like self-absorption and loneliness.

  • Humility, rooted in the word's meaning of "being of the earth," invites us to be grounded in our present experience rather than dissociated in idealized self-images.

  • Embracing vulnerability and our interconnectedness can counter loneliness and the myth of radical self-reliance.

  • Openness allows us to be receptive to life's joys and difficulties without predetermined agendas.

  • Kindness to ourselves and others is a silver bullet for navigating the complexities and tensions of the human experience.

Throughout the conversation, Christina encourages listeners to get "over ourselves" by embodying wisdom, humility, and openness to counteract narcissistic tendencies and reconnect with our fundamental interdependence.

To connect with Christina and get her book: Her book "Getting Over Ourselves" is available at major retailers like Tattered Cover Bookstore, Amazon, and Barnes & Noble. You can also visit her website at axonleadership.com to get in touch.

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